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The Relationship Landscape

Monday 9th November 2020 7pm
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We have talked about relationships being one of the three main quests in life. Here’s an overview of the journey if you missed it;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/lovers-hero-journey/

We can’t take a journey without having a landscape to travel through. So in this session, we’re going to talk about the relationship landscape we travel through.

Join us to discuss it together.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, main room discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private.

We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

Wired For Dating and Relationships

Monday 2nd November 2020 7pm
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Stan Tatkin’s work in relationships is about understanding the dynamics of how two nervous systems interact.

Relationships are not just about what we see, but about the emotions that go on beneath our awareness.

Stan has a number of books. Reading Wired for Dating or Wired For Relationships would give you a good understanding of his work.

For the quick overview watch his Tedtalk;

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xKXLPuju8U

Join me to discuss it together.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, main room discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private.

We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

The 12 Stage Journey In The Quest For Love

Monday 26th October 2020 7pm
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Joseph Campbell wrote about the Hero’s Journey years ago. The Hero’s Journey was his observation that all great stories followed the same basic plot structure.

Star Wars, The Matrix, The Lion King, Rocky and the story of The Buddha and Jesus are all very different in their form, but all follow the same basic structure.

I believe that in much the same way each of us are on an individual quest to find love on a universal journey. A quest that has many challenges, pitfalls and disappointments along the way. For some background I wrote some ideas here;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/lovers-hero-journey/

Join me to discuss it together.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, main room discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private.

We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

The Enchantment Dating Strategy

Monday 19th October 2020 7pm
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Dating as most people do it, is draining, disappointing and often leaves people in despair.

Few people come out feeling more confident and empowered.

Does it have to be this way?

My philosophy of dating has always been different.

Inspired by the articulation of Chloe Valdary’s Theory of Enchantment, I thought this a good time to crystalise a more empowering dating strategy.

Join me to discuss it together.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, main room discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private.

We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

Jigsaw: The Stand Up That Led To 95,000 Engagements Ending and 200 Divorces

Monday 12th October 2020 7pm
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Daniel Sloss claims that his Jigsaw routine has led to 95,000 + engagements ending and 200 divorces.

I was asked recently to be interviewed about this routine for a podcast and I thought it would make an interesting topic for discussion.

In a nutshell, he cuts through the same cultural narrative around relationships as I address in the Fairytale Framework. His challenge though has led many to end their relationship. Let’s discuss the ideas he talks about.

The routine is available on Netflix as Jigsaw. It’s from about half an hour into the show.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, main room discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private.

We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

Treat Them Mean To Keep Them Keen! Part 2

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Monday 5th october 2020 7pm

There are many communities in the dating world that exist on the premise that you have to use techniques and play games to win the girl or guy.

Esther Perel argues in her book Mating in Captivity that emotional intimacy comes at the cost of desire.

Then there are many who say we should be loved for who we are.

Sue Johnson and the Gottmans argue that sex problems are usually emotional problems.

Is there a third way?

Let’s explore the idea and work out the nuances.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly.

However, life sometimes gets in the way. So this and other meetings will be recorded and available for anyone to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, Main discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private. We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

Treat Them Mean To Keep Them Keen! A Valid strategy or barrier to authentic love

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Monday 28th September 2020 7pm

There are many communities in the dating world that exist on the premise that you have to use techniques and play games to win the girl or guy.

Esther Perel argues in her book Mating in Captivity that emotional intimacy comes at the cost of desire.

Then there are many who say we should be loved for who we are.

Sue Johnson and the Gottmans argue that sex problems are usually emotional problems.

Is there a third way?

Let’s explore the idea and work out the nuances.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly.

However, life sometimes gets in the way. So this and other meetings will be recorded and available for anyone to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, Main discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private. We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

What is happy ever after?

Monday 21st september 2020 7pm

We often complain about our relationships, but until we know what Happy Ever After looks like we can’t find it.

In this Meetup we’ll explore what happy ever after would look like for you.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, main room discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private.

We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

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Playing The Game of Relationships

Monday 14th September 2020 7pm

If you want to one day love and be loved you are playing the Game of Relationships.

There are different stages to the game. Sometimes it’s just us and sometimes it’s with another, but these are all part of the game.

Join us and we’ll discuss the Relationship Landscape and the minefields and challenges of each stage.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly.

However, life sometimes gets in the way. So this and other meetings will be recorded and available for anyone to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, Main discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private. We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

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Navigating Friendships

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Monday 7th September 2020 7pm

We’ve had a lot of Meetups about romantic relationships. Something a number of people have asked about is friendships.

Not only is it hard to meet potential partners as you get older, it’s also harder to meet new friends.

This isn’t a topic I have done much work around, so this will be a group discussion to discuss challenges and group source solutions.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly.

However, life sometimes gets in the way. So this and other meetings will be recorded and available for anyone to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

For the sake of clarity, Main discussions are recorded, but breakout discussions are private. We use first names and you are free to change your Zoom name to any if you have any privacy concerns.

Slaying The Dragon: Bridging The Gaps Between Us

Monday 31st August 2020 7pm BST

We so often use the metaphor of the Fairy Tale.

Prince meets Princess. They fall in love and live happily ever after.

The missing step is the ordeal.

Every Prince and Princess has to slay a dragon, lift the wicked witches curse or go through some ordeal to have their happy ever after.

Slaying the dragon is the ordeal of bridging the differences between you so that you can have your happy ever after. In this Meetup, we’ll explore the idea and give an overview of the process.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

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Who Are You? How To Develop Self Awareness And Self Acceptance

Monday 17th August 2020 7pm BST

Before we can connect and relate to someone else, we have to connect to ourself.

Many dating and relationship problems are amplified versions of an inner conflict we have internally.

Until we know who we are, what we want and how we operate best, we will struggle to know who the right partner for us is and the relationship in which we will thrive.

For this Meetup, there is some preparation. If you can bring some insight to yourself, it will mean we can go further in the discussion.

Here’s what you can do to prepare;

Find your Myers Briggs type;

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

What’s your Love Language;

https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

What’s your attachment style;

https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Bring your thoughts, experiences and questions and an open mind and together we’ll explore self-awareness.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

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The Inside Scoop On How Dating Apps Work - From A Dating App Creator

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Monday 10th August 2020 7pm BST

I’ve met few people who like dating sites and apps and many who dread them.

From the problems of fake profiles and catfishing to stalking and ghosting, they can seem to be a minefield.

On this call we’ll have a dating app developer who’ll talk about how apps work, what profiles and photos get most attention and will answer your questions.

Bring your thoughts, experiences and questions and an open mind and together we’ll explore the murky world of dating apps.

How To Make Divorce And Breakups As Simple And Painless As Possible

Monday 3rd August 2020 7pm BST

Divorce and Breakups can be the most devastating time of our lives.

Having watched many, many people go through heartbreak I have developed a process that can simplify and speed up the healing so you can move on with your life.

Bring your thoughts, experiences and questions and an open mind and together we’ll explore the process to healing.

This is an online Meetup. It will be held on Zoom.

Meetings build on each other, so it will be helpful if you can attend regularly. However, this and other meetings will be recorded and available to catch up as a podcast with past Meetups at;

https://makerelationshipssimple.com/relationship-podcast

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How To Make Your Current Or Future Relationship Loving And Lasting?

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Monday 27th July 2020 7pm BST

After 26 years as a Therapist and Coach watching people’s relationship struggles, I believe that most people play the game of relationships in a way that is almost dooming them to disappointment and heartache.

Three years ago, I set out to build a system to make relationships simpler so people could have more satisfying relationships.

In this meetup, I’ll share my findings and then we can have a discussion on any questions, barriers or any other insights or opinions you can add.

Make Online Dating Simple

Monday 20th July 2020 7pm BST

Online dating for most people is frustrating and disappointing.

In this Meetup I’ll share what I’ve found has worked for myself and my Clients to make dating effective

In this meetup, I’ll share my thoughts on mindset, messaging and meeting new people.

Then we can have a discussion on any questions or barriers you might face. Or any other insights or opinions you can add.

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How To Make Relationships Simple

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Monday 13th July 2020 7pm BST

After 26 years as a Therapist and Coach watching people’s relationship struggles, I believe that most people play the game of relationships in a way that is almost dooming them to disappointment and heartache.

Three years ago, I set out to build a system to make relationships simpler so people could have more satisfying relationships.

In this meetup, I’ll share my findings and then we can have a discussion on any questions, barriers or any other insights or opinions you can add.