Relationships Should be...


Life is busy. We need to make relationships simple so we can all have better relationships.


Relationships exist to enhance the life's of the people in them.
Our relationships should support us in the rest of our life.


Relationships that don't work lead to emotional pain, bitterness and disappointment. Relationships we care about and invest in, need to work not for a few years, but a few decades.

A Medieval Mindset In A modern world

Everything we want in life comes through our relationships.

Yet for most people relationships aren’t working out.

We still have the same relationship problems and dilemmas that Shakespeare wrote about. And our relationships are still beset by the same tragicomic misunderstandings and ineptitudes that he entertained the world with.

Yet the plagues and diseases that at that time were treated by prayers, flagellation and bloodletting are now mostly eliminated or managed with cutting edge medical science.

The aim of Make Relationships Simple is to bring to relationships the same relentless focus on refining and sharing a more effective framework for relationships. 

So that finally everyone can have the love and connection they need.

The Plan


Our purpose is to help people have a Built To Last relationship. This is a relationship that is fulfilling for both over their lifetime.


Relationships that last work for both sides.
They are clear and simple. Both partners know what they need to do and how to do it.


Relationships that work are built on truth. 80% of the outcome of a relationship is set by the Relationship DNA before they meet. Success isn't 'making' it work. Success is knowing if it will work.

Rob McPhillips

Hi, I'm Rob McPhillips

Since 1993 I've been studying people and relationships. In that time I've seen pretty much every relationship issue.

It doesn't matter how broken or unloveable you think you are, everyone can have a simple, satisfying and sustainable relationship.

All that matters is if you're willing to put in the effort to attain simple. For those that are, I have the plan and the pathway.

The Maths Behind Finding a Life Partner

7.2 Bn
People in the world
100 M
Approx Single adults
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